Gatekeeping as a Feature: The Case for Principled Refusal in Open Infrastructure
Feature requests feel like compliments, and that is precisely what makes them dangerous. The open infrastructure projects that endure longest are not those that said yes to their communities most often, but those that cultivated the institutional discipline to say no—clearly, consistently, and without apology. This piece examines what principled refusal looks like in practice and why it may be the most underappreciated engineering virtue in open-source development.